Amy Sohn has been contributing editor at
New York Magazine, a columnist for the
New York Post, and a
New York Times bestselling author for a
Sex and the City companion guide, but in the past year her celebrity (and notoriety) has increased exponentially with the publishing of
Prospect Park West. Chronicling the intertwining paths of four Park Slope "bohemian bourgeois breeders," the novel helped cement the Slope's reputation as a hotbed of mommy angst. Recently we sat down to discuss her thoughts on Park Slope and some of the stigma surrounding it.
HPS: What was your path from where you grew up in Brooklyn Heights to Park Slope?
Amy: I've lived in Brooklyn my whole life, except for college, which was Brown. So as a single person I lived in Brooklyn Heights (both with my parents and not with my parents), Cobble Hill, Carroll Gardens, and then when I got married in 2003 we thought about buying an apartment. That was when the Slope came into the picture.
HPS: What specific things were you looking for that you found in Park Slope?
Amy: I wanted the good public school district, I liked the idea of being close to the park, I think I was aware of the Co-op. But really, to be honest, it had more to do with inventory. In other words, it seemed like there were more apartments available in the Slope. If you were looking for a two-bedroom apartment there weren't as many you could buy in Cobble Hill or Carrol Gardens. And proximity to the city, of course.
HPS: What do you love about Park Slope?
Amy: I love the open sky, I love how quiet it is when you get off the train, I love the Montauk Club, I love the central branch of the Brooklyn Public Library. I could say the park, but given how close I live to it it's really embarrassing how little I take advantage of it. And then as a mother, I've really enjoyed things like the wide variety of preschools to choose from, and the library, Botanic Garden, and the Brooklyn Museum are all things I re-discovered through being a mom.
HPS: What are some of your favorite restaurants in the neighborhood?
Amy: Al Di La is definitely my favorite restaurant. I really like Thistle Hill Tavern on 15th Street, and Istanbul Park on Seventh is really good. Lately we've been eating a lot at Fornino.
HPS: What would you like to change, or see more of, in Park Slope?
Amy: I think the people in our neighborhood need to be more honest with each other about their resentment. We have all these blogs where people, particularly without children, go off on the people with kids. But I don't see a lot of actual face to face engagement. Something like, "Excuse me, I'm trying to walk here, are you aware that your stroller is taking up the whole street?"
The good thing about our neighborhood is that we have all these different types of people. The bad thing about our neighborhood is that they don't really engage each other. This is New York City! This is a city built on telling other people what you think of them. On people not being afraid to speak their minds.
First, when you tell someone that what they're doing is bothering you, you get it off your chest, which is a much healthier way than writing about it on an anonymous blog, and second, and more important, you teach them something they didn't know. Because all those ladies taking up the whole sidewalk, I would venture to say are not aware of the effect their behavior is having on other people. They need to be told. The Co-op is the only place I can think of where people are forced to have it out. I love when I get yelled at! It's just a more honest form of engagement.
HPS: How do you respond to people who mock Park Slope?
Amy: Did you see that
article about the people with babies moving to Wiliamsburg? That's a good example. If you go in and flag the article, I believe there are either three or four direct quotes knocking Park Slope, and then one or two paraphrases in the journalist's voice knocking Park Slope.
Park Slope has become a kind of shorthand for a gentrified, bourgeois neighborhood with affluent families in it. That's certainly true, but look around Cobble Hill, Carrol Gardens, and Fort Greene! It's not all that different in a lot of other neighborhoods.
It goes back to my earlier point. Stop stereotyping. Find distinctions between people, don't lump everyone together. Be more honest about your feelings and also try to be more understanding. I'm not saying people should let others walk all over them, but again the mom taking over the whole street with the toddler is completely overwhelmed by her own life. She's not just a mean, self-satisfied person who doesn't care about others. She's just in some hormonal haze, and she just doesn't know.
HPS: Why do you think Park Slope has become almost a punchline?
Amy: Well, part of it is my novel. I think it put it on the map for the people out there in the rest of the country that weren't quite aware of it. My novel, The Squid and the Whale, Paul Auster being known as this longtime Park Slope author, all those things have helped put it on the map. Certainly the New York Times granting an extraordinary amount of coverage to Park Slope as a kind of quintessential New York neighborhood of this type, over the last five years or so, put it on the map.
HPS: What do you think the most misunderstood or misrepresented thing about Park Slope is?
Amy: I feel like people think Park Slope has always been like this. I don't think people realize how much more diverse it was only 30 years ago, in terms of political orientation, class, and race. A lot of the coverage ignores that. For example, look at Greenwich Village. Most people know that the Village is very affluent now, and that it wasn't always like that.
Park Slope is a victim of its own success. Because the very people that renovated these houses so that the standard of living gradually went up for everyone, some of these people still live here! Nobody pays any attention to them. I feel like certain groups are invisible, and it's really a shame. People don't realize that the older woman walking down the street in front of you is the reason that there's ten kindergartens in PS 321. So don't be obnoxious to her.
Now we only hear about the negative consequences of this being such a successful neighborhood. Such as overcrowding in schools, real estate values being too high, people not doing renovations that are respectful of the history of the building, crowded streets, or high prices in cafes. All of this has to do with an extremely successful transformation.
HPS: What specifically inspired you to take a snapshot of this place and time and write Prospect Park West?
Amy: It was this feeling like Park Slope was sort of popping or exploding an a certain way, like it has reached a critical mass in terms of the affluence, the mini baby boom, the presence of all these mothers. It's a novel about the mid-2000s boom even though it came out in 2009. And also my personal motivation was feeling different from other mothers, struggling to make new friends, not sure why it was hard. Even just little things like having a hard time finding the perfect apartment; I had a character obsessed with real estate the way that so many people are.
So I just felt like the moment was right and that the book needed to be written, and I was the person to do it. It wasn't something I was going to sit on for five years.
HPS: So what's next?
Amy: I have the sequel coming out in 2012. I don't want to say the title, but it works as a companion to Prospect Park West. It takes some of the characters into the next couple years of their life, and also introduces some new characters. Prospect Park West ended with a cliffhanger, with a couple questions that needed to be answered. I'm excited to let readers catch up with these characters a couple years down the line.